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What technology would you be better off without, why?

Technology has undeniably shaped the way we live, work, and connect. From smartphones that place the world at our fingertips to cutting-edge tools that make daily tasks more efficient, it’s safe to say we’re living in a golden age of innovation. Yet, amidst the benefits, there are technologies that seem to rob us of something deeply human: presence, balance, and peace.

If I had to choose a technology I’d be better off without, it would be social media algorithms.

Why Social Media Algorithms?

At first glance, algorithms appear helpful. They curate content based on our interests, ensuring we see things we’re likely to engage with. But over time, I’ve realized these algorithms often do more harm than good. Here’s why:

1. They Steal Time Without Us Noticing

Have you ever scrolled through your feed only to realize an hour has passed without you even noticing? That’s no accident. Social media algorithms are designed to keep you engaged for as long as possible, prioritizing content that hooks you rather than content that adds value. I can’t help but think about how much time could be better spent on meaningful moments, deep work, or simply being present in the real world.

2. They Create Echo Chambers

Algorithms reinforce the ideas and beliefs you already have, showing you more of the same. While this might feel comfortable, it limits the opportunity for diverse perspectives and meaningful conversations. The world is rich with viewpoints, yet these algorithms often encourage narrow thinking.

3. They Impact Mental Health

From endless comparisons to feeling “not enough,” social media algorithms know how to trigger emotions like envy, frustration, or even loneliness. By selectively showing highlight reels of others’ lives, it can distort reality and leave us feeling inadequate.

4. They Reduce Authentic Connection

While algorithms connect us to more content, they ironically disconnect us from real relationships. Friendships that once relied on quality face-to-face time are now often reduced to likes and comments, driven by what an algorithm decides we should see.

What Would Life Be Like Without It?

Without these algorithms, I imagine a world where I could use social media with intention, rather than it using me. A world where I decide what to see based on genuine interest, not engineered persuasion. Perhaps I’d still scroll occasionally, but the time saved could be redirected to family, personal growth, or even quiet reflection.

I’d still keep the benefits of technology—smartphones for connection, streaming for entertainment, and apps for productivity—but I’d reclaim the balance that algorithms so easily tip.

Final Thoughts

Not all technology is bad, and social media in itself isn’t the villain. It’s how we use it—or more accurately, how it uses us—that creates the issue. By being mindful of the power algorithms hold over our time, attention, and emotions, we can take small steps to reclaim control. Maybe we can all challenge ourselves to unplug, even for a day, and see what clarity, peace, and presence feel like in its absence.

Do you or your family make any special dishes for the holidays?

The holidays are a special time of togetherness, love, and tradition. In my family, the season isn’t complete without the aroma of something sweet wafting from the kitchen. Over the years, three special desserts have become staples in our home: peach cobbler, banana pudding, and upside-down pineapple cake. Each dish carries its own story, its own memory, and its own role in making our holidays feel like home.

The Comfort of Peach Cobbler

There’s something about a warm peach cobbler fresh out of the oven that feels like a hug for your soul. We make ours with juicy peaches, a sprinkle of cinnamon, and a golden, buttery crust that crackles just slightly with every bite. The tradition started with my grandmother, who believed that a cobbler on the table meant there was always enough love to go around. Every spoonful brings a little piece of her into the holiday celebrations. We love topping it with a scoop of vanilla ice cream that melts perfectly over the warm peaches.

The Nostalgia of Banana Pudding

Banana pudding in our house is more than a dessert—it’s a masterpiece. Layers of creamy pudding, ripe bananas, and perfectly crisp vanilla wafers make this dish a crowd favorite. My mom has a secret twist: she adds a dash of almond extract to the whipped topping for an extra burst of flavor. It’s a dish that gets everyone around the table, reminiscing about past holidays while fighting over the last serving. To us, banana pudding represents simplicity and joy, something we all crave during the holidays.

The Elegance of Upside-Down Pineapple Cake

Last but certainly not least is the upside-down pineapple cake. It’s the showstopper, with its glistening caramelized pineapple rings and bright maraschino cherries. The beauty of this cake is in its simplicity and how it always looks like a holiday centerpiece. Baking this cake has become a family affair. The kids love placing the pineapple slices and cherries in the pan just so, and I enjoy the satisfaction of flipping the cake over to reveal its glossy perfection. It’s not just dessert; it’s an experience.

Sweet Moments Shared

What makes these desserts truly special isn’t just the recipes or the flavors—it’s the moments they create. Whether it’s laughing together as we whisk ingredients, sneaking a taste of the batter, or sharing stories around the table, these dishes have a way of bringing us closer. The holidays are a time to savor both the food and the people we love, and these desserts have become a sweet reminder of that.

Do you and your family have any special holiday dishes? I’d love to hear about them!

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If you didn’t need sleep, what would you do with all the extra time?

If I didn’t need sleep, I would dedicate that extra time to fully embracing the passions and goals that often get pushed aside during the hustle of daily life. I’d spend more time writing—pouring out stories, thoughts, and experiences that have been waiting patiently to take shape. I’d dive deeper into my coaching programs, crafting tools and resources to help others #Heal4Real and thrive in their journeys.

I’d also pour into myself through self-care, mindfulness, and learning, exploring personal growth in ways that would ripple out to benefit my family and community. From reflecting on my healing journey to developing creative projects like my Shae-isms and podcast episodes, that extra time would become a canvas for meaningful work and connection.

And, of course, there would be moments for stillness—allowing myself to dream and create with a heart full of purpose, knowing the importance of balance, even if sleep weren’t a necessity.

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Who are your current most favorite people?

When I think about my favorite people, I realize how much joy, love, and strength they bring into my life. It’s a reflection of how relationships shape us and fill our hearts with the moments that truly matter. Today, I want to take a moment to honor and celebrate my “circle.”

First and foremost, my husband and my kids are my everything. They are my greatest blessings and the reason I strive to grow and thrive every single day. My husband’s unwavering support and love remind me of the power of partnership, while my children fill our home with laughter, curiosity, and endless lessons about life. They’ve taught me resilience, patience, and the beauty of being present in the now.

My younger brother has always been a rock in my life. There’s something so special about having someone who understands your story because they’ve lived it with you. His loyalty and support are unmatched, and I am forever grateful for the bond we share. He’s not just my brother; he’s one of my closest friends.

Then there’s my aunt—she’s a constant source of wisdom and grace. Her kindness and unwavering faith inspire me to lean into the lessons life teaches us. She’s the person I can go to when I need perspective, a comforting word, or just the warm presence of someone who truly cares.

And finally, my cousin, who feels more like a sibling. We’ve shared so many laughs, memories, and even challenges that have strengthened our connection over the years. They bring a lightness and joy to my life that I cherish deeply.

As I reflect on these incredible individuals, I’m reminded that the people we hold close are the ones who help shape our journey. They celebrate our wins, sit with us in our struggles, and remind us of what truly matters when life gets overwhelming.

My circle may not be large, but it is full. And for that, I am eternally grateful.

So, who are your favorite people? Who fills your circle with love and strength? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments—let’s celebrate those who hold our hearts.

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What are your favorite animals?

When asked what my favorite animal is, you’d think I’d have a straightforward answer. But life has taught me that my relationship with animals is… complicated, at best. Let me explain.

Cats: The First Betrayal

I used to think cats were cute, low-maintenance creatures who spent their days purring peacefully in sunny spots. That fantasy was shattered when one decided my oldest son’s face was a scratching post. I’ll spare you the gory details, but let’s just say it ended with a Band-Aid, a stern lecture to the cat, and me officially removing cats from the list of potential favorite animals. Cute? Sure. Safe? Absolutely not.

Dogs: The Next Contender

Naturally, I thought dogs might be a better option. Loyal, loving, and always down for a snack—what’s not to love? Enter Apollo. A handsome pup with energy for days and a penchant for… toddler food. One day, my little one left their plate unattended for just a moment (bathroom break, you know how it goes). When they returned, Apollo had transformed into a doggy vacuum, leaving nothing but crumbs and a look of absolute guilt. That was the day I realized sharing my home with a dog meant sharing everything, and I wasn’t quite ready for that kind of commitment.

Goldfish: The Last Hope

After Apollo’s reign of snack theft, I thought, “What about a goldfish? It’s quiet, doesn’t need walks, and won’t steal food.” But then I remembered that I have three kids, and honestly, keeping a fish alive feels like taking on another dependent. Imagine explaining to your toddler why Goldie didn’t make it. Nope, not today.

So, What’s My Favorite Animal?

At this point, I think my answer is “none.” Three kids running around is all the excitement (and chaos) I need. They’re cute, cuddly (sometimes), and constantly on the move. Honestly, it feels like I already live in a zoo—why add to the roster?

For now, I’ll stick to admiring animals from afar, preferably through a screen or behind a fence at the zoo. My favorite animal? Probably the one that doesn’t live in my house, doesn’t eat our snacks, and definitely doesn’t scratch faces.

What about you—do you have a favorite animal, or are you sticking to kids like me? Let’s hear your tales of animal chaos in the comments.

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Beach or mountains? Which do you prefer? Why?

When it comes to choosing between the beach and the mountains, my heart will always drift toward the calming waves, sandy shores, and the endless blue horizon of the beach. There’s something undeniably therapeutic about the ocean—a kind of magic that draws you in, no matter how many times you’ve visited.

For me, the beach represents a sense of freedom and renewal. Standing at the edge of the shore, feeling the gentle tug of the waves as they wash over my feet, reminds me of the ebb and flow of life. The rhythm of the ocean serves as a natural reset button, allowing me to release stress and breathe deeply again. It’s as if the sea knows exactly what you need—peace, reflection, or just a space to simply be.

The beach also inspires me to slow down and savor the little things: watching a sunrise over the water, listening to the crash of the waves, or walking along the shoreline collecting seashells. Whether I’m soaking up the sun or simply sitting still with a good book, it feels like time slows down just enough for me to recharge.

What truly sets the beach apart, though, is the way it connects us—to nature, to our loved ones, and even to ourselves. It’s a place where memories are made—building sandcastles with my kids, taking long walks with my husband, or even just enjoying the laughter that seems to fill the air. The beach is more than a destination; it’s a feeling.

So, while I appreciate the rugged beauty and tranquility of the mountains, my soul will always long for the salty breeze, the warm sun, and the endless possibilities of the beach. It’s where I feel most alive, most free, and most at peace.

If you had to choose, which would it be—the endless shorelines of the beach or the serene peaks of the mountains? I’ll be right here, toes in the sand, waiting for your answer. Don’t forget to subscribe!

Do you trust your instincts?

For years, I struggled to trust my instincts. I would seek advice from everyone else, hoping someone could validate the direction I felt pulled toward. But the turning point came when I chose to follow my inner voice despite the noise around me. It was the decision to write my book, Highway to Healing, that cemented my belief in trusting myself. The instinct to share my story, even when I wasn’t sure how it would be received, not only changed my life but also transformed the lives of others who found solace and empowerment in its pages.

Now, I embrace my instincts as a trusted guide—not because they guarantee perfection, but because they keep me authentic and aligned with my purpose.

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If you could meet a historical figure, who would it be and why?

If I could meet any historical figure, my answer would come without hesitation: Harriet Tubman. Her story is one of unparalleled bravery, resilience, and faith—a story that continues to inspire me and countless others to this day.

Harriet Tubman’s journey wasn’t just about her own freedom; it was about risking her life to lead others to theirs. Despite the unimaginable dangers she faced, she made it her mission to liberate as many enslaved individuals as possible, guiding them through the Underground Railroad. She wasn’t just a beacon of hope; she was a force of nature, an example of what it means to walk boldly in purpose.

What draws me most to Harriet Tubman is the strength she carried through every moment of adversity. I often wonder: What was it like for her in those moments of doubt or fear? How did she hold onto her unshakable faith in a time when the odds seemed insurmountable? And how did she find the courage to return again and again, even after securing her own freedom?

I think of her resilience and how it mirrors the strength I aim to embody and help others discover through my own life’s work. Harriet’s story reminds us that courage isn’t the absence of fear—it’s moving forward despite it. Her life teaches us that even when the path is dark, purpose can be the light that guides us.

Her legacy also challenges me to reflect on the times when I’ve faced my own “impossible” moments. No, I may not be leading people through perilous journeys like she did, but I know what it’s like to feel the weight of fear, grief, and uncertainty. Harriet Tubman’s story inspires me to ask myself: How can I be courageous today? How can I help others find their path to freedom—whether it’s emotional, mental, or spiritual?

If I had the chance to sit with her, I’d want to ask about her vision for the future. How did she maintain such unwavering hope for a better world? And I’d thank her—for her sacrifices, for her courage, and for showing us all that even when the world feels against us, one person’s faith and determination can ignite change that echoes across generations.

Harriet Tubman’s life is a reminder that we are capable of so much more than we think. She lived in a time when freedom was a dream, yet she made it a reality—not just for herself but for so many others. Her story pushes me to keep showing up, to keep believing in a future that’s brighter than today, and to help others see that they, too, can overcome their “impossible.”

I hope her legacy continues to inspire us all to walk with courage, no matter how uncertain the road ahead may seem. Because if Harriet taught us anything, it’s that courage, fueled by purpose, can move mountains—and it can certainly change lives.

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer.” — Harriet Tubman

Let us all continue dreaming, striving, and walking forward in courage, just as she did.

What’s your favorite month of the year? Why?

When I think about my favorite month of the year, I’m immediately transported to May—a month that carries both joy and bittersweet memories for me. May is more than just a page on the calendar; it’s a chapter of reflection, growth, and love.

Why May? It’s a month of renewal and possibility. The flowers are in bloom, the days are longer, and it feels as though the world is shaking off the last remnants of winter’s grip. For me, it’s also deeply personal—May is the month I became a mother for the first time. It’s the month I experienced an unshakable bond and the unimaginable pain of loss, as my firstborn son, Braylen Makai, was born in May and left this world just 28 days later. Every May, I honor his memory, his light, and the way he changed my heart forever.

May also signifies resilience. It’s a reminder of how life continues to blossom even after seasons of loss and heartbreak. In this month, I find the strength to celebrate the beauty in brokenness and the joy of new beginnings. I look around at my children, my family, and all the moments we’ve been blessed to share, and I am reminded that every hardship we’ve endured has led to something greater.

Beyond personal reasons, May feels like a gift of hope. It’s a time to listen to the laughter of my kids as they play outside, to enjoy the fresh air that whispers promises of summer adventures, and to give thanks for another year of growth.

So, what’s my favorite month of the year? May, without a doubt. It’s the month that reminds me to reflect on where I’ve been, celebrate where I am, and hold onto hope for where I’m going.

What about you? What’s your favorite month, and what makes it special for you?

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What is your favorite place to go in your city?

Every city has its hidden gems, and for me, the mall is my go-to spot when I need a little pick-me-up or just want to spend a relaxing day out. There’s something comforting about walking through the familiar stores and indulging in a few favorite rituals. Let me take you through what makes this experience so special.

First stop? Auntie Anne’s. If you know, you know. The smell of freshly baked pretzels wafts through the air and pulls me in every time. Whether it’s the classic salted pretzel or the sweet cinnamon sugar twist, grabbing a pretzel from Auntie Anne’s feels like a small celebration of life’s simple pleasures. Pair it with their lemonade, and you’ve got the perfect treat to kick off the day.

From there, I always find myself wandering over to Ross. It’s like a treasure hunt every time I step in—never knowing what amazing deals and finds await. Whether I’m on the hunt for a cozy sweater, a stylish handbag, or even some home décor, Ross has a way of surprising me with its variety and affordability. It’s the thrill of discovery that keeps me coming back.

No day out would be complete without a trip downtown to The Forum. This spot combines the best of everything—great food, shopping, and just a perfect space to soak in the vibe of the city. The energy here is unmatched, and it’s the ideal place to wrap up my outing. Whether I’m catching up with friends, exploring unique local shops, or just enjoying the lively atmosphere, The Forum is where my city truly comes alive.

Each of these stops holds a little piece of what makes my city feel like home. From the comfort of a warm pretzel to the thrill of finding a great deal and the buzz of downtown life, it’s these simple joys that keep me grounded and grateful. If you’re ever in the area, I’d love for you to experience it for yourself—you just might find your own favorite spots too.

Where are your go-to places in your city? I’d love to hear what makes your day out special!

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